birth coach, Bose SoundDock, Meryl Streep, Mozart, Mozart Clarinet Concerto, Out of Africa, Robert Redford
Remember that scene in “Out of Africa” where Robert Redford takes Meryl Streep flying in his little yellow plane, soaring over the lush plains of Kenya, an equally lush soundtrack soaring overhead? Now, do you like babies? Read on…
A good friend of mine, successful and single, recently had a baby, and one night six months ago, she rocked my world when she asked me if I would be her “birth coach.” Say what?! Birth what?! Me?! I could go on and on about that night and all that followed, but let’s just say I accepted and it was indeed one of the most heart-stirring and memorable experiences of my life. One of the things I’ll never forget? The music! Despite my desire to put together some dramatic, eclectic playlists for the big day, my friend only wanted to hear Mr. Baby Music himself, Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart. Me, I’d want to hear some soothing Chopin followed by a Jay Z opus or two, but I wasn’t the one popping this baby out. So a Mozart playlist it was, and when the day arrived and I got THE CALL, I stuffed my Bose SoundDock into my bag-in-waiting, and nervously headed uptown to start my “coaching.”
About 8 hours and 2 epidurals later, it was time for the final push. I got on one side, the nurse got on the other, and Mozart played on. I tried to remember all the breathing instructions I was supposed to impart on to my slightly-drugged yet valiant friend, but all I could think of was, Oh my god, Mozart’s Clarinet Concerto just came on! This baby’s got to be born during the 2nd movement! And me being me, that’s exactly what I said. “One, two, three …. the Adagio is almost here, the music they used in that great scene from “Out of Africa,” PUUUSH! … six, seven, eight …. “ And guess what? Beautiful little Claire Luna, all 8 lbs. 2 oz. of her, was indeed born to this beautiful music, below. And let me tell you, Robert Redford’s got nothing on baby Claire.